Hugh, parent, male, 40, Massachusetts
My Experience
- Overall Rating
- 2
- average of all patients
- Pain

- Inconvenience

Our nine-month-old son was having recurrent ear infections in both ears. His doctor recommended having the fluid drained.
The preparation before the surgery was minimal. The main thing was that our son couldn’t eat or drink for a number of hours before the procedure, but the procedure was scheduled first thing in the morning so even this requirement was easy to satisfy.
At the hospital we were first issued wrist tags — all three of us – and then my wife and I answered a nurse’s questions for about twenty minutes. We then changed our son into a hospital gown. I also put some scrubs on because I was going to carry our son into the pre-op and operating rooms. Only one parent was allowed to go into the OR, so my wife remained in a waiting room.
When it was time, I carried my son to pre-op, and then a short time later into the OR. Once there, I sat down and held my son in my arms while the anesthesiologist gently placed a mask over my son’s mouth. Within 30 seconds my son was asleep. I then put him on the table and the surgical team, about five people, took over. I returned to the waiting room and changed back into my own clothes and started to describe to my wife what had just happened.
Shortly after (and before I could had finished fully explaining), we received a call saying that my wife could come down to the recovery room to wait with our son until he woke up. This part was fairly brief and uneventful.
There was little to do in the way of recovery: just a few doses of Tylenol and a good night’s rest. Our son slept well that night (as did his parents!) for the first time in several months, and has remained a good sleeper in the several months since. The only ongoing issue is that we need to keep water out of his ears, but even this is much easier than we had expected. For us, this procedure was not very stressful for the patient or parents.
My Advice
Schedule the procedure for first thing in the morning. Decide beforehand which parent is most comfortable with medical situations and have this parent take the child into the operating room because having to hold your baby while he or she is being sedated isn’t fun and some people might find it upsetting. The reality of it is much less dramatic than what your imagination conjures up in advance, so just be calm, especially as I’m certain a baby can sense his parent’s mood! Choose a doctor who explains everything, in advance, and to your satisfaction. Don’t let anyone rush you into making the decision to get the tubes; but at the same time, there is little to be gained by waiting, and the upside can be huge, so be decisive.
- posted by HealthAngle January 15, 2009
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